Understanding autistic and ADHDer children’s mental health
About the course
'Everyone thinks it is a bad thing to be autistic. I'd like everyone to just try a little bit to understand autism, instead of just pretending.’
– Carrie, Year 71
Autism and ADHD are types of ‘neurodivergence’ – a term that describes brain functioning that differs from the current social and cultural norm (referred to as ‘neurotypical’). While traditionally named as ‘disorders’, there is a shift towards viewing autism and ADHD as simply natural differences in neurocognitive functioning. This shift is known as the 'neurodiversity-affirming paradigm'. It has been driven by the neurodivergent community in response to the deficit-focused medical model that informs current conversations about neurodivergence.2
A neurodivergent-affirming (or neuro-affirming) perspective encourages us to focus on the disabling effect of living in a neurotypical world – one with rules, systems and environments that aren’t built for neurodivergent brains. Research has found that three-quarters (78%) of autistic children and almost half (44%) of ADHDers have at least one mental health condition.3, 4 This course invites neurotypical practitioners, and society more broadly, to support the mental health of neurodivergent children by seeking to understand and accommodate their needs and differences.
Neuro-affirming practice is grounded in a person-centred and strengths-based approach, recognising autism and ADHD as ways of being in the world that are an integral aspect of a child’s identity.2 It encourages you to focus on and delight in children’s abilities, while not discounting the difficulties neurodivergent children and their families experience. It encourages therapeutic strategies that are focused on improving the child and family’s quality of life, rather than hiding, controlling or ‘treating’ their neurodivergence.
Autism and ADHD are often seen as the domain of specialists and disability service providers. But with many families waiting years for a diagnosis and access to NDIS supports, it is essential that all practitioners are equipped to support the immediate mental health and wellbeing needs of children and families.
This course introduces a neurodivergent-affirming approach to working with autistic and ADHDer children – one that is focused on accepting their differences, engaging their strengths and interests, and responding to their needs. It explores key characteristics of autism and ADHD through a neuro-affirming lens, and introduces five practice shifts to support your work with children and families.
Please note: This course does not provide information or guidance on conducting autism and ADHD assessments.
Who is this course for?
This course is designed for practitioners who engage with autistic and ADHDer children and/or their caregivers. It may be especially useful for early career professionals and those looking to grow their confidence in working with neurodivergent clients. Teachers and early childcare workers may also find the neuro-affirming principles helpful in their day-to-day interactions with children and parents.
Learning aims/outcomes
This course aims to increase understanding and application of a neurodivergent-affirming approach among practitioners working with autistic and ADHDer children and their families. It will support you to:
- increase your understanding about autism and ADHD, including the impact neurotypical societies and systems have on neurodivergent children’s mental health
- recognise your role in supporting the mental health of autistic and ADHDer children and their families
- apply a neurodivergent-affirming lens in your work with children and families.
Duration
It is estimated that this course will take you approximately 1.5 hours to complete, including reading material and watching videos.
You can undertake the course across multiple sessions at your own pace. The last screen you visit before logging off will be bookmarked and you will have the option of returning to that screen when you next log in.
Self-care
As you work through the course, it is important to be aware of your own emotional responses. Please follow these self-care tips and seek help if needed:
- We do not recommend undertaking the entire course in one sitting. Give yourself some breaks. Even if you don’t feel that you need a break, it's a good idea to take one anyway and come back later.
- Be aware of your emotions as you progress through the course and take action if you are starting to feel stressed or upset. For example, consider taking a break and doing something for yourself that you enjoy.
- Be aware of your emotional responses after you complete the course.
If at any point you find you are struggling, please talk with your supervisor, seek help, or call Lifeline on 13 11 14, Beyond Blue on 1300 224 636, or SANE Australia on 1800 187 263.
Definitions
For the purposes of this course, the term parent encompasses the biological and adoptive parents of a child, as well as individuals who have chosen to take up a primary or shared responsibility in raising that child.
Social and emotional wellbeing refers to the way a person thinks and feels about themselves and others. It incorporates behavioural and emotional strengths, and is a facet of child development.5
In broad terms, social and emotional wellbeing is the foundation for physical and mental health for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples. It is a holistic concept which results from a network of relationships between individuals, family, kin and Community. It also recognises the importance of connection to Land and Waters, culture, spirituality and ancestry, and how these affect the individual.6
Social and emotional wellbeing is also used by some people from culturally and linguistically diverse (CALD) backgrounds, who may have differing concepts of mental health and mental illness.7
Social and emotional development involves the development of skills required to:
- identify and understand one’s feelings
- read and understand the emotional states of other people
- manage strong emotions and how they are expressed
- regulate behaviour
- develop empathy
- establish and maintain relationships.8
Like ‘biodiversity’ refers to the variety of life found in a particular area or in the world, neurodiversity describes the natural range of differences (‘diversity’) in human minds.9 An individual person may be ‘neurotypical’ or ‘neurodivergent’.
A person’s neurotype is the particular way their brain processes information.
Neurotypical people have ‘a style of neurocognitive functioning that falls within the [current] dominant societal standards of “normal”.'9 They find it easier to adapt to the changes and demands of society than neurodivergent people.
Neurodivergence is a difference in the ways brains think and adapt.2 Autism and ADHD are just two examples of neurodivergence.
The neurodiversity paradigm is a specific perspective on neurodiversity that boils down to these fundamental principles:
- Neurodiversity is a natural and valuable form of human diversity.
- The idea that there is only one ‘normal’ or ‘healthy’ way for a brain to work is a culturally constructed fiction. It is no more correct – or helpful – than the idea that there is one ‘normal’ or ‘right’ ethnicity, gender or culture.
- The way people respond to neurodiversity is similar to how they respond to other forms of diversity (e.g. race, gender, culture or sexuality). This includes power imbalances and other social inequalities, but also the potential for diversity to bring creativity and new ideas when it is valued and supported.9
Neurodivergent-affirming practice (also referred to as neuro-affirming practice) is ‘a therapeutic approach that creates an environment and treatment plan rooted in a deep understanding of neurodivergence. It emphasises supporting individuals through their challenges and making accommodations for their needs.’10 It is often used alongside ‘neurodiversity-affirming practice’, which includes approaches that respect and affirm all kinds of brain functioning.
Autism spectrum disorder (autism) typically presents as differences in social communication and interaction, along with a preference for sameness (expressed through repetitive behaviours, interests and activities).11
Attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is characterised by hyperactivity and differences in attention and emotional regulation. It presents in three ways:
- Predominantly inattentive symptoms (e.g. a lack of concentration or focus)
- Predominantly hyperactive/impulsive symptoms (e.g. speaking or acting without thinking first)
- A combination of both.12
Two-thirds of ADHDer children are diagnosed with a combined presentation.13
The term AuDHD or AuDHDer refers to someone who is both autistic and an ADHDer.
A note on language
While your organisation may promote the use of ‘person-first language’ when talking about disability (e.g. ‘child with autism’, ‘child with ADHD’), the majority of individuals in the neurodivergent community advocate for ‘identity-first language’ (e.g. ‘autistic child’, ‘ADHDer’, ‘AuDHDer’ ).14 This is based on the belief that autism and ADHD are an intrinsic part of a person’s identity, not a ‘problem’ that can be separated from it.
Based on insights from the literature, guidance from parents with lived experience of autism and ADHD, and the Australian Government’s National Roadmap to Improve the Health and Mental Health of Autistic People, we have chosen to use identity-first language in this course.
Everyone’s preferences are different, so we encourage you to ask the children and families you work with about their preferred terminology.
Contributors
This course draws on the latest research, clinical insights, and the lived experience of neurodivergent practitioners and Emerging Minds’ child and family partners.
We would like to thank the professionals and families who played an integral role in shaping this course, generously offering their time, wisdom and unique perspectives.
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References
- Carpenter, B., Happé, F., & Egerton, J. (2019). Girls and autism: Educational, family and personal perspectives, p. 147. Routledge.
- Chapman, R., & Botha, M. (2023). Neurodivergence-informed therapy. Developmental Medicine & Child Neurology, 65(3), 310–317. DOI: 10.1111/dmcn.15384.
- Kerns, C. M., Rast, J. E., & Shattuck, P. T. (2020). Prevalence and correlates of caregiver-reported mental health conditions in youth with autism spectrum disorder in the United States. The Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 82(1), 11637. DOI: 10.4088/JCP.20m13242.
- Steinberg, E. A., & Drabick, D. A. G. (2015). A developmental psychopathology perspective on ADHD and comorbid conditions: The role of emotion regulation. Child Psychiatry & Human Development, 46(6), 951–966. DOI: 10.1007/s10578-015-0534-2.
- Ștefan, C. A., Dănilă, I., & Cristescu, D. (2022). Classroom-wide school interventions for preschoolers’ social-emotional learning: A systematic review of evidence-based programs. Educational Psychology Review, 34(4), 2971–3010. DOI: 10.1007/s10648-022-09680-7.
- Commonwealth of Australia. (2017). National Strategic Framework for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Peoples’ Mental Health and Social and Emotional Wellbeing 2017–2023. Department of the Prime Minister and Cabinet.
- Everymind (n.d.). Understanding mental health and wellbeing. Everymind.
- Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (AIHW). (2009). A picture of Australia’s children 2009 (Cat. no. PHE 112). AIHW.
- Walker, N. (2021, August 1). Neurodiversity: Some basic terms & definitions [Web page]. Neuroqueer.
- Neff, M. (n.d.). Neurodivergent affirming practice: Helping your clients accept their authentic selves [Web page]. Neurodivergent Insights. Retrieved 27 January 2025.
- American Psychiatric Association (2013). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (DSM-5®). American Psychiatric Publishing.
- Australasian ADHD Professionals Association (AADPA). (2022). Talking about ADHD language guide. AADPA.
- Dalsgaard, S. (2015). DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for ADHD. ADHD in Practice, 7(2), 35–38.
- Taboas, A., Doepke, K., & Zimmerman, C. (2023). Preferences for identity-first versus person-first language in a US sample of autism stakeholders. Autism: The International Journal of Research and Practice, 27(2), 565–570. DOI: 10.1177/13623613221130845.